2020—Toilet Paper, Elbow Greeting Rituals, and Mullets
Who would've foreseen the debacle that was 2020? A global pandemic that led ordinary intelligent civilians to hoard toilet paper, establish new greeting rituals involving their elbows, and cheerfully report their every banal movement to the authorities. But let's not dwell on the virtues (or otherwise) of loosely-held civil freedoms, lest the tin-foil hats unfurl. The real elephant in the room is this: where the heck did the mullets come from? It's genuinely perplexing; equally disturbing. I'm not sure 2020 will live it down. It will be that story that gets pulled out at family dinners and repeated for all of eternity... "remember the year people grew mullets again and thought they were cool?" I'm not talking about people that still have them—they are authentic, the real deal, they have staying power: they waited for the full cycle to come around and came out victoriously yet indifferently on the other side. Respect.
Okay, so happy to put the mullet-year behind us? Great. But let's think twice about starting 2021 the same way we've started all the others—with a bunch of tired promises that we're only half convicted about and less than half committed to.
Typical New Year's Resolutions
The top 5 New Year's Resolutions (over a 5 year rolling sample), according to Google (so it's probably true) is:
1) Eat healthier / diet (71%)
2) Exercise more (65%)
3) Lose weight (54%)
4) Save money (32%)
5) Learn a new skill or hobby (26%)
Now I'm assuming the top three, being over half of the responses each time, have numerous repeat offenders (me, for one). Recidivism aside, statistics report that 80% of NYRs are dropped by January 19—they don't mention how many limp through the rest of the year on the brink of death. Either way it's a pretty high failure rate. Why are NYRs so ineffectual?
Well perhaps because us humans are not great at keeping promises in general. Do you know who is though? God. He's promised to redeem this whole mess we've gotten ourselves (and our planet) into. The Old Testament is full of the revelation that he will do so, and the New Testament is about the first stage of that fulfilment—the decisive entry of God into human history in the person and work of Jesus Christ: to save the whole world. Pretty ambitious right? On the cross he defeated evil for good. Unlike the mullet, which we thought died in the late 80s and has made a sudden & gruesome comeback. (Sorry about my obsession, perhaps I secretly want one). Jesus did it right, once and for all. When he said "it is finished" on the cross, he meant it.
But what does this mean for us now, and what does it have to do with those pesky NYRs?
What We're Really Looking For
Look at the list of typical NYRs again and think about this: what do we really want? I'm betting it's something like health, security, identity, which sounds suspiciously like those ancient gods of money, sex and power. Those gods which promise a lot and deliver little; and even if they did deliver, we are pretty short sighted right? I mean, our lives are a blip on the radar of eternity, and none of those prizes are coming along for the ride.
But health, security, and identity need not have negative connotations. So I ask again, what are we really looking for? Amplify health, security, & identity and you get freedom, assurance, and transformation. In Jesus, we find what we're really looking for. Increase your focus on Christ, rather than on yourself, and you might just get more than you bargained for. As John the Baptist said, "I must decrease, so that he can increase." It's a zero-sum game. This way too, it won't be based on your own self-effort, which is, let's face it, elusive at worst and unreliable at best.
So what are we to do? Nothing? By no means! Instead of focusing on your own NYRs in 2021, focus on God's instead. No word from God ever fails. Here's 3 to ponder:
GOD'S RESOLUTIONS TO ME IN 2021
1) To set me free - (deliverance)
Jesus said himself that he was in the business of releasing captives. He went about doing just that, both in his 3 year Earthly ministry and in his 2000 year spiritual ministry ever since. If you need proof of this, try hanging out with Christians more, or perhaps (ahem), different Christians.
Set me free from what? Addictions & afflictions, worry & anxiety, anything that oppresses us and prevents us from living out our full potential, and seeing God's blessings come to fruition in our lives. God is our remedy.
2) To open my eyes - (assurance)
...To know him more. To know that we are loved by him, led by him, known by him.
...To see what he sees and feel what he feels. To be his hands and his feet, to help the sick, to feed the poor, to bring the good news to those in need.
...To the person and power of the Holy Spirit in our lives, to the great hope he has called us to, to the great riches of heaven which are already at work in us and through us.
3) To transform me - (transformation)
You mean like Optimus Prime? Well, yeah sort of. Not so sudden, perhaps. It takes time.
This is really the flip side of Point 1, God is the ultimate alchemist: he takes our darkness and turns it into light. After all, darkness is only good gone bad. God makes it good again, and uses it for good.
He refines us, transforms us, and makes us more like him. The Bible says he refines us like silver, which is polished until it reflects the face of the refiner. After all, we were made to reflect his image.
Ultimately God promises us peace that surpasses understanding, a joy that surpasses our circumstances, and a hope that shapes our present lives to be a blessing to ourselves and to others.
Who wouldn't want that?
So What Do I Need To Do?
These promises really, reflect an ongoing process in the life of believers saved through grace, by faith in Christ. It is part of God's larger agenda to prepare us (and the world) for the coming kingdom, that final coming together of the New Heavens and the New Earth into a glorious New Creation, of which we are the first fruits.
God did all the heavy lifting to make these promises possible, he paid a huge price for doing so. He's got skin in the game. He's good to his word. All he asks of you in return is that you spend time with him. Get to know him. Let him into your heart and life each day. Pray, worship, meditate on him and on his promises. Over time, you (and the people around you) will marvel at the results. I'm not saying you need to become a monk—just hang out with him, be you and do what you do, but with him. It's a better you, I assure you. It makes life, well, just better.
Having said all that, I'm not saying you should write off your regular resolutions. Just pursue them in the right way. Once they're framed within the larger context of the freedom, assurance, and transformation you get from being with Christ; they will no longer rule over you like malevolent gods. They will be in their rightful place in subjection to Christ, and you might just find that they come true after all.
By spending time with Jesus, his promises will naturally come to fruition in your life. Let me put it this way: when you have freedom, assurance, and transformation; you will get health, security and an identity throw in that cannot be shaken.
C.S Lewis famously said, "Aim at heaven, and you will get Earth thrown in; aim at Earth and you will get neither."